ဆြာမိႀကီးေၿပာတဲ ့အခ်စ္အေႀကာင္း...

[အလင္းေစတမန္:4969] ဆြာမိႀကီးေၿပာတဲ ့အခ်စ္အေႀကာင္း...

I once had a friend who grew to be very close to me.
Once when we were sitting at the edge of a swimming pool, she filled the palm of her hand with some water and held it before me, and said this: "You see this water carefully contained on my hand? It symbolizes Love."
တစ္ခ်ိန္တုန္းက က်ဴပ္နဲ ့သိပ္ခင္တဲ ့မိတ္ေဆြတစ္ဦးရွိခဲ ့တယ္...

တစ္ေန ့ေတာ ့ေရကူးကန္ေဘးမွာ က်ဴပ္တုိ ့ႏွစ္ဦးထုိင္ေနစဥ္ သူမက လက္ခုပ္တစ္ဖက္နဲ ့ေရခပ္ၿပီး

က်ဴပ္ေရွ ့ကုိလာကာ...” ကြ်န္မလက္ထဲကေရကုိ ႀကည္ ့ပါဦးေလ...ဒါဟာခ်စ္ၿခင္း

ေမတၱာရဲ ့သေကၤတအထိန္းအမွတ္ပါပဲ...”  လို ့ဆိုလာပါတယ္..

This was how I saw it: As long as you keep your hand caringly open and allow it to remain there, it will always be there. However, if you attempt to close your fingers round it and try to posses it, it will spill through the first cracks it finds.
ဟုတ္ပါတယ္....သင္ဟာသင္ ့ရဲ ့လက္ကုိ ေသခ်ာစြာၿဖန္ ့ထားၿပီးရွိေစမယ္ဆုိယင္ ေရေတြဟာ

လက္ခုပ္ထဲမွာပဲရွိေနမွာပါ...ဒါမဟုတ္ပဲ ပုိင္ဆုိင္လိုတဲ ့စိတ္ေဇာနဲ ့လက္ကုိဆုပ္ၿပီး

ေရေတြကုိယူလိုက္မယ္ဆုိယင္ေတာ ့လက္ေခ်ာင္းေတြႀကားထဲကေန

ေရေတြယုိဖိတ္ၿပီးထြက္က်ကုန္မွာပါ....

This is the greatest mistake that people do when they meet love...they try to posses it, they demand, they expect... and just like the water spilling out of your hand, love will retrieve from you .

အဲဒီအခ်က္ဟာ အခ်စ္နဲ ့ပါတ္သက္လာယင္ လူေတြ အမွားႀကီးမွားေနႀကတဲ ့

အခ်က္အလက္ပါပဲ...သူတုိ ့ဟာ ပုိင္ဆုိင္ခ်င္ႀကတယ္..

ပုိင္ဆုိင္ဖုိ ့အတြက္ႀကဳိးပမ္းႀကတယ္....အတင္းအႀကပ္ေတာင္းဆုိႀကတယ္..အေမွ်ာ္လင္ ့ႀကီး

ေမွ်ာ္လင္ ့ႀကတယ္...အဲဒီအခါမွာေတာ ့...လက္ခုပ္ထဲကေရေတြလိုပါပဲ...

ပုိင္ဆုိင္ဖုိ ့ႀကဳိးစားလုိက္တုိင္း...လက္ထဲကေနေလွ်ာထြက္သြားသလိုပါပဲ...

ခ်စ္ၿခင္းေမတၱာဟာလည္း သင္ ့ထံကေန ထြက္ခြာသြားပါလိမ္ ့မယ္....

For love is meant to be free, you cannot change its nature. If there are people you love, allow them to be free beings.

Give and don't expect.
Advise, but don't order.
Ask, but never demand.

ခ်စ္ၿခင္းေမတၱာဆိုတာလြတ္လပ္ၿခင္းသဘာ၀တရားမုိ ့ထုိသဘာ၀တရားကုိသင္ဘယ္လိုမွ

ေၿပာင္းလဲပစ္နုိင္မွာမဟုတ္ပါဘူး...ဒါေႀကာင္ ့သင္ေမတၱာစစ္နဲ ့ခ်စ္ခင္ႏွစ္သက္

ေနသူေတြရွိေနမယ္ဆုိယင္ေတာ ့...

သူတုိ ့ကုိ....

လြတ္လပ္ပါေစေလ...

ေပးဆပ္လိုက္ပါေလ...ရယူဖုိ ့ေတာ့ၿဖင္ ့မေမွ်ာ္လင္ ့ပါေလနဲ ့...

အႀကံၿပဳပါေလ....ဘယ္ေတာ ့မွေတာ ့အမိန္ ့ေပးေစခုိင္းၿခင္းမၿပဳပါေလနဲ ့...

ေမတၱာရပ္ခံ၊ ခြင္ ့ေတာင္းပါေလ...ဘယ္ေတာ ့မွေတာ ့မေတာင္းဆုိပါေလနဲ ့....

It might sound simple, but it is a lesson that may take a lifetime to truly practice. It is the secret to true love. To truly practice it, you must sincerely feel no expectations from those who you love, and yet an unconditional caring."
ႀကားရဖန္မ်ားလို ့ရုိးေကာင္းရုိးေနပါလိမ္ ့မယ္...ဒါေပမယ္ ့ဒီအမွန္တရားဟာ သင္ ့ဘ၀

တစ္ေလွ်ာက္လံုးအတြက္က်င္ ့သံုးရမယ္ ့လက္ေဆာင္မြန္ပါေလ...

ဒါဟာ စစ္မွန္တဲ ့ခ်စ္ၿခင္းေမတၱာတရားရဲ ့လွ်ဴိ ့၀ွက္ခ်က္ပါပဲ...

တိတိက်က်၊တစ္ေသြမတိမ္းလိုက္နာက်င္ ့သံုးခ်င္တယ္ဆိုယင္ၿဖင္ ့...

ကိုယ္တကယ္ခ်စ္ၿမတ္နုိးသူကုိ ဘာအေႏွာင္အဖဲြ ့မွမပါတဲ ့ဂရုစုိက္ၿခင္းမ်ဴိးၿဖင္ ့ဂရုစုိက္ပါေလ...

ကို္ယ္တကယ္ခ်စ္ၿမတ္နုိးသူဆီကဘာတစ္ခုကုိမွ် ပုိင္ဆုိင္ရရွိလိမ္ ့မယ္လို ့မေမွ်ာ္လင္ ့ပါနဲ ့...

Passing thought... Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take; but by the moments that take our breath away.....
အတုိခ်ဴပ္ရလွ်င္ ...ဘ၀ဆုိသည္မွာ အသက္ ရွဴသြင္း၊ရွဴရွဳိက္ေနသည္ ့အႀကိမ္ပမာဏအေရ

အတြက္မဟုတ္...ထုိတစ္ခဏေလးမ်ားမွ်သာၿဖစ္ပါတယ္...

Life is beautiful!!! Live it !!!

သာယာလွပ တန္ဖုိးရွိတဲ ့ဘ၀မ်ားမွာ !!!...

အေနတတ္၍ ေက်နပ္ပါေစေလ !!!...

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